We’ve long since theoretically known the importance of children’s ministry, but yesterday it became glaringly obvious. Roberto and mariana came over for lunch yesterday. It was great. Their two daughters have already been at several Christ Church events and they get on really well with Alejandra. I fired up the fireplace and grilled burgers over the hot coals on a little portable rack made for just such purposes.
We met Roberto and Mariana (sort of like their real names) in December when I was playing Santa Claus at a Christmas function at church. The have just moved back to Uruguay after a bunch of time in the states, where she has lived since she was 16 and where he went to do his Ph.D. In some type of research science that has something to do with engineering and something to do with fluid dynamics and weather. His parents call him their son whose “head is in the clouds.”
They came back to Uruguay in 2002, at the worst moment of the financial crisis, and bought a place just a couple of miles from our house. They heard about our Christmas party through the friend of a friend, and were delighted to be able to conserve a bit of the “international side” of themselves by taking part in a multi-cultural, English language event in a church community. Last December, when they were leaving the Christmas event, they asked me, “Are there any Catholics at Christ Church?” “Oh yeah,” I told them, “we’ve got Christians and non-Christians of all kinds.” They let me know that they were more or less “disgruntled Catholics” looking for a living expression of Christian faith that had an international edge.
I got so excited as I saw this 30-something Uruguayan couple, with kids, heading off at the end of the event. THESE are the people we came here to work with… THESE are the folks for whom we have prayed to see a grassroots Christian movement began again.
We have kept in touch since then, on and off, as we did our summer camp, and then periodically on Sunday mornings when they come around. Yesterday, between checking the internet for scores in the Australia-Brasil World Cup match, we covered the whole gamut from why we were in Uruguay, to why they came back, to the state of fluid dynamics worldwide.
At one point, I mentioned to them a little survey I was getting together to research why people came to Christ Church, and he told me, “Hands down, it’s for the kids. There is no other church around here that is doing what you guys do with kids. It might not KEEP people at your church, but you can guarantee it will get them there.”